Like a Magnet

What are you attracting?

My husband has been waiting for this game he ordered, to arrive. He told me about it for weeks. “It’s this game with magnets and you try to get rid of yours before the other person.”

The game arrived last night. You lay out a string in the shape of a circle and each player is given the same number of small magnets to play with. Each player takes turns placing a magnet within the circle trying not to attract another magnet which could zip over and connect to the magnet you just put down. If it, or several, does connect, you pick them all up and keep going until someone is able to get rid of all their magnets.

As I put each magnetic piece down, I could see the other pieces wiggle a bit. They wanted to connect to my piece. I got to thinking how it was like the law of attraction or something. If we are magnetic, we attract things. If I was just putting a jelly bean in the middle it would not attract the other magnets. I had to put the right thing into the circle if I wanted to attract the other like objects. I would have lost of course but stay with the metaphor please! sheesh.

So what do you put in your circle to attract what you want? Are you a magnetic thinker, have a positive mindset or take positive actions to attract what you want or are you the jellybean? I mean jellybeans are great but they are not magnetic.

As we begin our new year (thank goodness), I have been putting out a more positive and enthusiastic attitude, thoughts and intentions. I do that by first clarifying what I want, saying it out loud and talking about it with others and then taking action steps to get there. Our THOUGHTS, WORDS AND WHO WE HANG WITH, are the three areas that truly attract what we want. “I’m going to make 2026 a great year for Born to Rise.™”. I am going to have twenty great authors and stories in my new book for Born to Rise.™”. I am going to meet smart, savvy people who can help me market the book so it is a big success.” “I am going to have amazing story nights in various parts of RI and beyond.” These are some of my thoughts and what I say out loud.

The universe is objective and gives you what you attract with those thoughts, words and community. Do you say “I have all the time and money for everything I need” or “I will never have enough time and money for what I want.” You will attract time and money if you think and say the first one and believe you deserve it. That is pretty key. And you do deserve it.

Who do you hang out with? Do you hang with complainers, whiners or negative thinking people or those who find solutions to their issues? Be around other magnets. Attract them to you with your positive attitude and mindset. These people become your tribe who are also attracting what they desire. How fun is that?

In the magnet game I guess I’m not supposed to attract other magnets if I want to win, but in life, I sure want to be magnetic. I have worked on my mindset for almost two decades and have created and attracted experiences, work successes and an amazing community by doing so. I am not bragging but encouraging you to check in with your own mindset. Think about what you want to attract, say it out loud, imagine it has already happened and how that makes you feel and then surround yourself with those who will support your actions and intentions.

You don’t want to be a jellybean, you want to be a magnet. “I am someone who is abundant in all aspects of my life.” Maybe start there.

I believe in you, I have a great community you can be a part of filled with women who are manifesting positivity and abundance and if you need one on one time to get a kick start, give me a call. www.borntorise.live.

Namaste

Kim